C - Communicator

This is the human personality, from the spirit world, who is communicating with the medium and is usually a relative, a loved one or a friend of, and is often known by, the sitter.

The communicator is encouraged to supply as much information that is necessary to be recognised and accepted by the sitter.

The communicator needs to provide enough information so that his/her identity is proven to the sitter.

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The information given should be along the lines of:

Appearance
Height
Weight
Build
Hair colouring and style
Skin colour
Colour of eyes
Age
How the person died
Illnesses
Work
Clothing and style
Relationship to the sitter
Name
Any other details given.

 

E - Evidence

Once the identity has been established then more information is necessary to further identify the personality and to prove that the spirit person is aware of both past, including recent past, and present events in the sitter’s life and circumstances.

The information should and could include:-

Hobbies
Mannerisms
Idiosyncrasies
Past memories
Shared memories
Recent events
Information known to the sitter and not known sometimes
Illnesses in the family
Events affecting the sitter and family members
Any other information given to the medium

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R - Reason

This section covers the reason the spirit person is communicating.

Such reasons could be :-

To provide reassurance to the sitter
To provide support
To simply say “we are aware of what is happening”
To provide hope and comfort to a grieving relative or loved one
To provide evidence that the human personality continues after death
To provide upliftment to the sitter
To attempt to guide and advise the sitter.
Whatever information is given to the medium.


T  - Tie it up

Perhaps giving reassurance from the communicator to the sitter about the sitter’s recent problems and worries.

Perhaps simply saying “I love you and care for you” or the giving of a gift from spirit.



NB Remember that a medium’s role is to provide evidence of survival of the human personality beyond the physical state we call death, and anything else is a bonus.